she's just not that into you

I couldn't help but write about this. The guy I mentioned in my previous post is just always around. He calls me, brings me some Starbucks to my class, and just leaves messages. I'm not getting any younger so I'm trying to see some potential in him. He's taller than me (which has been one of my requirements all along), has a decent job, is responsible, and he just seems so into me.

But he isn't stirring anything in me.

I'm not sure till when I would wait to conclude that it's hopeless. I just don't want to force myself and end up settling for less than what I deserve or want.

This might help other guys out there too. Here are ten signs she's just not that into you, based on my experiences. It might help girls realize too if the guy isn't just doing it for her.

1. She doesn't reply to all your text messages.
2. If she does reply, messages are short, and hardly any smiley faces.
3. She doesn't agree to watch your basketball game.
4. She doesn't answer all your phone calls. (Try calling using a different number a few minutes after she doesn't answer. And if she answers, it means you're screwed.)
5. When you bring her food, or surprise her with your presence, and she doesn't seem too thrilled. (In my experience, I feel disturbed.)
6. She only goes out with you if it's a group thing, and she knows the other people.
7. She ends up talking to the other people more during the group hangout.
8. She hasn't accepted your invite to follow her on Twitter.
9. She's still checking out other guys when she's with you.
10. She doesn't ask enough questions about you, but answers your questions about her.

Reading this, I think I already have my answer. Maybe I should save this poor guy from wasting more time and money on me.