Mr. San Francisco suddenly messaged me. Turns out he is back in town for a month. He asked me if I wanted to share a meal with him (he could sound so formal sometimes). Of course I agreed. But this time, I no longer had expectations. It's too strong to say I've been burnt by him before, but I guess I kind of get the impression he just wants a friend, and nothing more. If he was interested me as more than a friend, he would have kept in touch.
So we had dinner. And I mean literally just that. two hours of food and conversation. No invite for after-dinner drinks or coffee. Conversation is still easy with him. He's a nice guy.
I am interested to get to know him more, but he isn't giving me the chance.
He said we could see each other again before he leaves. I don't want to hope.
I mentioned I MIGHT go to San Francisco for a couple of days next month. (he was the one who asked me when I was going back). He said he wants to bring me around. Guess he was just being friendly.
He said I am his one and only Tinder meet-up. Or so he says. But this was after I told him I met with one guy after him. (Oh wait, were there three? My bad!) He had the chance to kind of come clean. I DID say i met with one guy. What's wrong if he admitted he met up with someone too? So I guess he was being honest.
He also said he might not meet up with any other friends during this trip. Or he was just saying that.
So again will just go with the flow with him and not have any expectations.
But here's the thing. There's this other guy who's really interested in me, and actually flew back to Manila for me. It's overwhelming and flattering, but so far I haven't felt any chemistry with him. But I'm heeding others' advice to get to know a person first. Sometimes it happens later on. So that's what I'm trying.
I have this guy who's interested in me. Then there's this guy I'm interested in but doesn't seem to be as into me.
The story of my life.
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