It happened again. I was chatting with a guy I met on Tinder for a little over a week and unintentionally an image of him formed in my head.
I knew he wasn't perfect. I already got hints from chatting with him that he was a bit chatty -- the opposite of what usually happens since I usually dominate the conversations with the other guys. I knew he was a serious guy -- a bit intense -- and opinionated.
I liked though that he was a bit old-fashioned and was very honest.
So after days of chatting with him, we planned to meet.
He was actually very tall and handsome -- probably better than in his photos. But when it went down to the conversation -- he totally dominated it. He talked a lot about himself and his life. And in the awkward lulls that he had the opportunity to ask me questions about myself, he didn't take it. So I ended up asking him more questions about him, and the cycle started again.
I attempted to start talking about things about myself but he didn't seem interested.
Then he even mentioned about the girl he chatted with on Tinder the previous night!
I really tried to see the good in him. He does have some good qualities. He was a gentleman. He was driven. He was smart.
But when it came to the party of the night that he asked me, "If I ask you, would you go out with me again?"
I was in between answering "Why Not?" -- to try to live a bit more adventurously -- and a "Maybe?" but I ended up saying the latter.
He said, "I could take that the wrong way and just move on."
So I simply replied, "It's your choice."
So I'm pretty sure I won't hear from him again.
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