I didn't hear from him the day after we met up. But he texted me the second day, saying one of the friends he met up with the previous night knew my sister. This made me slightly happy because it meant he talked about me (I hope he said good things). That guy who knew my sister is the brother of someone I went to Prom with. Haha. What a small world.
Then he also said his sister had already spoken to me a few years back inquiring about the business. So he also spoke about me to his family.
(Okay, I'm grinning now.)
I seriously wanted to meet with him again before he left, but he didn't bring it up, so I didn't push it since i assumed he needed the time to meet up with friends and spend time with his family.
We exchanged text messages but I had to hold back a bit, because his intervals were taking much longer than mine. I didn't want to seem to eager, but of course also not discourage him. He said he was not feeling well due to all the activities. So the following day I asked him if he was feeling better. We texted some during that day, but I really still wasn't sure if he was interested or just riding along.
He would say things like "We're kindred spirits", "Where have you been all my life?", "we're stuck together like glue", or "We'll get along just fine". But maybe he's just saying those things. He's into sales, so I'm worried he just knows how to talk, and I'm just getting sucked in.
So he's leaving tonight and flying back to San Francisco. I forced myself not to text him and wait for him to be the one to text first. Good thing today was pretty busy so I managed (almost) not to get tempted.
It was already 8pm -- his flight is at 10:30 -- and I haven't heard from him so I was almost getting hopeless. But just a little after I mentioned it to my friend that I was a bit sad, he sends me a message, saying he was on his way to the airport, and that he will connect with me via Whatsapp when he gets to SF.
So I'll just see how it goes. I won't expect or hope -- I'll try my best. And well, I'll also try to continue meeting guys on and off Tinder. Life goes on :)
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