Leveling Up

I had a talk with an old high school friend based in New York, and she's joined online dating sites with the hopes of meeting people.

She made an observation that people tend to level up when it comes to seeking out people. She's been getting invitations from odd people, while she herself has been messaging blue-eyed hotties.

I don't know if there's any scientific study about this, but I realize that her observations hold true for me as well. The guys who have been showing interest for the past 12 months I really couldn't see more than a friend. Some of them are also pretty questionable in character or sanity (just kidding!).

But then I also think about the guys I actually liked and I realized that my weakness are for cute guys who turn out to be players. I don't like to think that the only cute guys who would actually like me are only players, but maybe I should learn to be less gullible.

I hope it won't be long till I find the guy who will be just the right fit for me.